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Posted by ashtonstory on January 31, 2009
Why is it that the focus is primarily on girls every time pre-marital sex or rape cases are discussed in newspapers? This article about the rise of underage sex and rape cases in Singapore mentions a survey of girls below the age of 16 having sex. There is apparently a jump in such cases that police want to make it a priority to reduce the number of girls having underaged sex.
Nothing is said about boys – be it statistics or measures related to them. Why the focus on girls? Is it acceptable for boys to have sex but not girls?
Girls need to “protect” their virginity and be the gatekeepers while boys can try to batter down the gate either through sweet words. That seems to be the subtle message that the authorities (school, police, parents) are sending to girls and boys. The responsibility of sex is placed on girls’ shoulders. Hence, if teen pregnancies or abortions occur, the blame automatically falls on girls.
Don’t think that only Singaporean teenagers are raunchy; Malaysians have their own fair share of wild sexual adventures, like a teenage girl having threesomes and other girls admitting that they love sex. Again, here, the subjects are females. What’s worse is that the headlines scream Tudung-clad teens who are hooked on sex. As if the sole focus on girls isn’t enough, the newspaper has to mention that they’re tudung-clad too. What is the article trying to imply? That women or girls who wear the tudung are frigids and are not supposed to love sex? Expand the implications and you can see the subtle equation of wearing the tudung to holiness. Wearing a tudung doesn’t make a person any more holy than wearing a labcoat makes you a doctor.
If people think that youth shouldn’t have under-aged or pre-marital sex, then focus on boys as much as girls. Enough with perceiving girls as symbols of morality. It is a very unjust perception and only leads to gender discrimination.
Don’t tell your daughter to say “No” to sex. Tell your son to not even ask for sex.
If you read of girl aborting or abandoning her baby, don’t condemn her. Ask “Where was the father?”
When a girl gets pregnant, don’t kick her out of school. Make her sex partner take equal responsibility for the child – either through caring for the child or giving her maintenance.
When a boy sleeps around, don’t call him a stud. When a girl sleeps around, don’t call her a slut.
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